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Helo, welcome back to another episode of the Dhiya Talks, your go-to lifestyle and personal journal podcast. I'm your host, Dhiya, and today, we're diving deep into the exciting, challenging, and sometimes overwhelming world of early adulthood.
why did i chose this topic if you ask, one of my listener and friend asked me on his birthday to make a podcast on this topic as a gift, so I was like yeaa sure chill, anyway I was doing a research on what topic should i speak about in my next episode.
In this episode I’ll be sharing about the expectation and reality of entering into the early adulthood and some tips on how to tackle them and lead a disciplined life; its not just narrowed into people in their early adulthood, its applicable to a person of any age if you feel like you are not disciplined enough in your life and you want to turn your expectations into reality. And as usual there will be case studies and my personal life as an example. so what really makes my podcast different from others podcast according to what I believe is that, I’m open about my own faults and failures in my podcast without any filter and the fact that I put in efforts to understand where all I made the mistakes and experiments solutions to find what best suits the particular problem, and all the best solutions I’ll be sharing with you people so that we can all grow together and make the best out of our lifes.
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AHH so coming back to the episode, early adulthood—the time when we're all supposed to have it figured out, right? Well, let me tell you, expectations can be quite the tricksters. We've all been there: fresh out of high school or college, eager to conquer the world. We envision landing that dream job, having a fabulously stylish apartment, and an Instagram-worthy life. But oh, the reality check that awaits us! Let's start by acknowledging that the transition to adulthood is like trying to build a puzzle without all the pieces. Reality rarely matches the vision we held onto. So, my dear listeners, what's the secret sauce to navigate this rollercoaster and turn expectations into reality?
Tip number one: Embrace Flexibility. Life is unpredictable, and things may not always go as planned. That's perfectly okay! Instead of rigidly clinging to those original expectations, be open to new opportunities that might take you on a different, yet equally rewarding, path.
Alright, let's talk about adulting essentials. Remember that super organized, Pinterest-perfect apartment you imagined? Well, reality might involve mismatched furniture, ramen dinners, and laundry days that you conveniently forget. The trick is to take pride in the small victories, like keeping that one plant alive for more than a month.
And here's tip number two: Embrace Imperfection. You don't need to have everything together all at once. It's okay to stumble, learn, and grow.
Now, onto career aspirations. We often imagine landing our dream job right after graduation. But in reality, the job market can be tough and competitive. Remember, success takes time. You might have to start at the bottom and work your way up. But each step contributes to your growth and eventual achievement.
So, my fabulous listeners, here's tip number three: Embrace the Journey. Success is built through hard work, dedication, and perseverance. Celebrate your progress, no matter how small it seems.
Relationships! Ah, the realm of unrealistic romantic comedies versus the real-life awkward Tinder dates and quirky love stories. Expectations about finding "the one" can create unnecessary pressure. Instead, focus on building meaningful connections, whether they're romantic, platonic, or even mentorship-based.
And for tip number four: Embrace Authenticity. Be your genuine self in all relationships. Authenticity is magnetic, and it will attract the right people who align with your values and aspirations.
Let's round this off with finances. Early adulthood often brings visions of financial independence and stability. But the reality of bills, student loans, and budgeting can be overwhelming. Remember, managing money is a skill that takes time to master. Start by creating a realistic budget and building healthy financial habits.
And last but not least, tip number five: Embrace Responsibility. Facing your financial reality head-on and making wise decisions will set the foundation for a more secure future.
And there you have it, lovely listeners! The journey from early adulthood expectations to reality is indeed an adventure. Embrace flexibility, imperfection, the journey, authenticity, and responsibility. These guiding principles will empower you to craft a disciplined and fulfilling adult life.
Remember, life is a canvas, and you're the artist. Embrace the brush strokes, the splatters, and the unexpected turns. They all contribute to the masterpiece that is your life.
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